Psychologist Points out Why “The Male Sex Generate Is A Tragedy”




Roy Baumeister describes why the male sex drive is a tragedy. What does Roy Baumeister feel is the rationale for adult men currently being sad with their sexual intercourse drive? Why is the male intercourse push overclocked?

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25 thoughts on “Psychologist Points out Why “The Male Sex Generate Is A Tragedy””

  1. And then technology comes along and flips the bird at gynocentric constraints on male desire the robot waifu revolution is around the corner. After that when the artificial womb comes men will for the first time experience freedom from female selectivity and we might even removes simple from the gene pool.

  2. So basically, women are so annoying that a relentless male sex drive is the only thing that will keep them around for longer than 15 minutes. Sounds about right.

  3. I am a male who would like to have safe, protected sex with someone who wants it (gives consent). Yet I am 19 and have never had sex. One reoccuring thought often strikes me: "Oh, I want to cuddle with someone in bed and just enjoy it all together" "but, like, there is no one for me right now".. it would be easy to adopt an asexual identity and say my sexless life is not important because I lack sexual desire + the belief it will never be possible for me. However that seems lazy and I know such an attitudw would lower my hope for the future. Up until recently I faithfully believed woman and men had around the same level of sexual desire. It now seems to me that men have a bit higher sex drive than women, not the least since it is alot more visible in reality, e.g. I hear a lot more about immoral sexual actions conducted by men against women, who have experienced invouluntary sexually related discomforts. Also I think the whole idea of having sex in marriage is adopted for a worldly realm lacking availability to having protected sex for enjoyment of all people involved. Can protected sex be spontanoues and fun if all persons agree? Do you have to be a soulmate with someone to have protected sex? Does protected sex require months of friendship building before the question of sex rises? For me, I would be happy if I met someone and we both had the knowledge to have good sex with each other that is safe and protected & agreed upon. Therefore I am not against prostitution if it is profesional, safe and volountary for all involved. For me, it would furthermore make sense if everybody was equipped with an open and educated view on sex, to make sex more of a topic that isn't taboo, unleash sexual creativity to create sex that builds on more than acceptance and trust, i.e. protected sex to avoid unwished pregnancy, diseases related to sexual contact. What if the public sector in our cities provided "sex hubs" for people who want to have sex where they can get profesional help for doing so in a fun and safe way. Buildings for learning and doing sex building on trust, consent and technology under expert supervision, i.e. a technocratic view on sex?

  4. I spent the lockdown with a sex addict, first 6 months was great second not so much, she drained all the test and drive from me 😂 spending 5-6 hours a day cooped up in a room having sex can take a metal toll, or at least it did for me… nothing worse than watching someone have an orgasm while you feel like your doing chores.

  5. I found woman have way more of a sex drive then men! I never get refused and they wanna get fucked anytime of the day. Once you connect with her in the right way and all her defences are down she wants to have as much sex as possible and for a lot longer time..

  6. There is only one solution to this problem. And I only recently discovered it in my late 40s. Ok so, we are all composed of body, mind, and soul. But each of us tends to have the view that “my mind and its thoughts are me”. When I had a spiritual awakening: I realized that the mind/brain, and thoughts, and the heart, and emotions, and even the personality are not “me”…. But rather the SOUL is the real self. So my soul can sit back and “observe” the mind and its thoughts, as well as observe the emotions. The soul retains its presence and says “ok brain I know what you’re doing, I observe and understand you and your thoughts , but your thoughts are not me”. Same with emotions. People say “I am angry” or “I am happy” but no, those are passing emotions, they are not YOU. Your soul, your consciousness, is YOU, and continues to exist when emotions pass. So similarly, we must apply the same principle to the sexual urges. The body is not me. The penis may have an itch, or an urge powerful enough to make the mouth yell from the rooftop, but that urge is not ME and it cannot consume me. The SOUL maintains presence and says “ok body, i understand you and what you’re doing, but those urges are not me and will not consume me.” The soul says the same to the mind when it has sexual thoughts. So it’s sort of like this — although words will never adequately explain it: When you start viewing the consistent YOU as the soul, and the mind/thoughts and body/urges as something in a sense distinct and separate from YOU the consciousness, YOU no longer are consumed as much by these sexual urges. You realize that the mind and body have functions and agendas, but that these are not you. You focus on the presence, the soul, which are you. And you maintain that presence without allowing thoughts of the mind and urges of the body to be you. The urges may still be there and at times the mind and body may attempt to relieve them but….they become “mere 3D stuff” and therefore much less important.

  7. Sadly, guys like this will never figure it out because they actually still believe we came from apes. Secondly, asking someone a fantasy question isn't really a very good survey. I don't think guys really want to have sex with 64 women over the course of a lifetime. He switches topic from how much sex do men want to how many partners do men want? These evolutionary psychologists can't answer anything because they believe in failed evolutionary theory. If women trained men to want more sex, why would women not want more sex? If people go broke and can't afford children, why would men evolve to want more children? If women would reproduce with men who wanted sex enough to put up with them didn't they also want someone who didn't want sex enough to leave them for another woman who gives them more sex? I think we have a problem here. The stuff this guys says, lol

  8. When I was younger, young men told me that a relationship was the only way to secure sex regularly.

    They didn't want the relationship as much, as the security of knowing they would get laid as much as they could try 😂😂😂

  9. I often feel violated by my own body. Those glorious years as a kid…where I just wanted to play outside and create funny art projects. And then puberty hit…and MY BODY…(not necessarily ME)…suddenly became obsessed with procreation. It was so unfair. So cruel. I would have rather spent more time exploring. Playing outside. Making funny art projects. But no…Nature insisted (against my will)…that I procreate. It's kinda weird when you think about it. Nature needs that failsafe. To keep life going. Make us do things, desire things, against our will.

  10. There is a solution to male sex drive issues, it's called AI/VR. It's not great now, but eventually the technology will be much more advanced and likely indistinguishable from reality. If you follow the stats on women's sex preferences, especially in countries like the USA, it's likely that a large portion of males will be completely excluded from real sex as women strive to choose ever more freakish sex partners.

  11. I slept with 50 girls by the time I was 19, and 70 by 21, and I only remember the ones I didn't take, I was actually a pussy as a teenager for a couple years, it could be 100+ easily like a few of my friends… I only remember the ones I didnt get.

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